Author: Kim Aycock

Friends Camp, Not a Stuff Camp

Every once in a while, someone says something that makes you stop and think, “Yep. That’s it.”

That happened this summer during one of the tours we had at both Camp Woodland and Towering Pines. A family was visiting with their son and daughter, walking around, looking at the cabins, checking out the waterfront and getting a feel for camp. They saw a lot in those few hours, but when they left, they summed up what they had noticed in a few simple words:

“You are a friends camp, not a stuff camp.”

Bam. Right on the nose.

Sometimes the idea is right in front of you, and it takes someone seeing camp for the first time to put it into words.

What had caught their attention wasn’t a particular activity or a fancy facility. It was the kids and staff. They noticed that the campers and counselors were just plain nice. They were friendly with one another. They talked to each other. They laughed together. They seemed comfortable being themselves. And the family drove away thinking, “This is where our kids are going to make friends.”

Not just summer friends, either. The kind of friends who know you well. The kind who cheer for you, look out for you, laugh with you and pick up right where they left off the next summer, even when there are hundreds of miles and months in between.

Don’t get us wrong. We have plenty of stuff at Woodland and Towering Pines, and it’s good stuff. We have beautiful lakes, sailboats, canoes, crafts, sports, fields, cabins, dining halls, campfires and all sorts of things to keep kids busy and engaged. We love all of it.

But the stuff has never really been the point.

The lake is better when there is a friend in the next canoe or sitting beside you on the same sailboat. Crafts is better when you can sit around a table and talk with the kids next to you, whether they are your age or five years younger. The dining hall is better when your whole cabin group and counselors are sitting together for three meals a day, telling stories and laughing about whatever happened that morning.

Olympics is better because you know the people on your team. You remember who used the most body paint, who kept everyone laughing, and who was cheering louder than anyone else. You find yourself yelling for people you might not have known a few weeks earlier as if you’ve known them forever.

And then there are those last days of camp.

By then, nobody really cares about the stuff anymore. The lake, the crafts, the games and the activities have done their job. They gave us places to go, things to do and reasons to spend time together.

Now we’re sitting next to people we don’t want to say goodbye to.

There are hugs. There are tears. There are promises to write, call, text and see each other again. There are kids and staff who are absolutely certain that summer cannot possibly be over because they aren’t ready to leave their friends.

That’s the good stuff.

So when we think about who we want Woodland and Towering Pines to be, maybe that family’s simple words say it better than we ever could.

A friends camp, not a stuff camp.

We have a lot of wonderful stuff at camp. We always will. But we hope that years from now, when our campers think about Woodland or Towering Pines, they don’t remember just what they did.

We hope they remember who was standing beside them when they did it.

Because that’s the stuff that lasts.

 

From Campers to Celebrities: Coed Show Magic

Now that Labor Day is behind us and summer is winding down in a big way, we find ourselves thinking back to Parents Weekend and the weeks leading up to it. There is something pretty special that happens during the final weeks of summer at Woodland and Towering Pines. While most campers are enjoying the familiar rhythm of camp, our oldest campers, the CITs, are working behind the scenes to create one of the most anticipated traditions of the summer: the Coed Show. Many of you have witnessed it firsthand because you have a camper who is a CIT or you join us for Parents Weekend. And some of you have probably been part of the Coed Show yourself during your era at camp.

Organized Chaos

It is pretty amazing, actually, to watch a few weeks of rehearsals, creativity and more than a little chaos come together as a full-blown production. For nearly three weeks, CITs from both camps work together to bring the show to life, taking familiar songs and giving them a new twist with rewritten lyrics, choreography, staging, props, coordinated T-shirts and plenty of lines to learn. By the time it takes the stage, all of those pieces have come together to create something that is uniquely the Coed Show.

Sing. Dance. Repeat.

What starts with singing through songs again and again in the Woodland Rec Hall eventually moves to the TP Rec Hall, where the group learns dances and staging. At the same time, the gals and guys find every spare moment they can to rehearse their individual numbers, whether during rest hour, in an activity where many of them happen to be gathered, or while getting ready for lights out. By the final week, all of those pieces come together for two performances, one for campers and one for parents.

 It’s About Belonging

The Coed Show is about much more than singing and dancing. At an age when fitting in, finding your people and knowing where you belong can feel especially important, it gives our oldest campers an automatic community and a shared purpose. They know what their friends are doing, they have a role to play, and they are working toward something together. Even campers who would never choose to sing or perform at home often discover that camp makes it different because the focus is not on being a performer. It is about being part of the group.

Coed Show Glow

There is a certain amount of “celebrity” status that comes with being a CIT and part of the Coed Show, and that can be a pretty fun part of being one of the oldest campers. The younger campers look up to the CIT’s all summer, and the Coed Show seals the deal. There are definitely thoughts about being a CIT and in the Coed show one day. More importantly, though, the experience gives the oldest campers a chance to belong to something special and uniquely theirs. They work hard, laugh a lot, learn to depend on one another and, by the time the curtain goes up, they have created something that could only have happened because all of them were there.

That is one of the things we love about camp. Sometimes the most meaningful traditions are not just about what happens on stage. They are about the friendships, confidence and sense of belonging that grow through the process.

Tradition Across Generations

There is also a special invitation extended to Coed Show alumni in the audience each year to join in the traditional slideshow songs, often including “At the Beginning.” It is one of those moments that connects generations of campers and reminds everyone that they are part of something that stretches beyond a single summer.

➡️ We invite you to SAVE YOUR SPOT for 2027 (if you haven’t already) – we will be opening up spots for new campers SOON! Thank you!

What Camp Teaches That High School Doesn’t

Posted by on March 6, 2026

High school is full of structure – bells ringing every 45 minutes or so, assignments with rubrics, and a whole lot of emphasis on grades, ACT/SAT scores, and résumés. Camp is the opposite. It is chaotic, unscripted, and full of unexpected lessons that prepare campers for life in ways school never do.

  1. People See You Differently Without Labels

In high school, students are defined by their schedule or extracurriculars. You’re known as the athlete, the overachiever, the quiet one. At camp, none of that matters. No one is expected to fit a mold. That change in environment lets youth figure out who they are without trying to meet other people’s expectations.

  1. Being Offline is a Game-Changer

At camp, phones are off and completely out of sight. That means no group chats, no endless scrolling, and no comparison traps. Instead, campers have actual conversations, sit in silence, and got comfortable just being where they are. It’s mind blowing how much noise we get used to – and how valuable it is to disconnect once in a while.

  1. Teamwork Looks Different Outside the Classroom

Group projects at school are usually about dividing work and getting it done. At camp, teamwork means real-time problem-solving – planning a Sunday event together, helping someone through a tough day, or figuring out how to make the most of a rainy afternoon. There are no roles or titles – just a shared goal and a bunch of trial and error.

  1. Leadership Isn’t About Being in Charge

At camp, leadership shows up in small moments: helping a homesick camper, stepping up when things weren’t going smoothly, or just being someone others could count on. It’s not about being the loudest or most experienced. It’s about showing up and doing what needs to be done.

  1. Confidence Comes from Doing, Not Just Achieving

In school, confidence is often tied to things like grades or acceptance letters. At camp, it comes from doing things that seem out of reach – leading a group, navigating a hike, solving problems on the fly. No one hands out awards for those little moments, yet those experiences give a quiet kind of confidence that sticks (and more times than not someone notices and says something).

  1. There is Much Needed Space Just to Have Fun

Between deadlines, exams, and college applications, high school doesn’t leave much room for just having fun. At camp, fun isn’t a side activity – it is part of the culture. Playing games, making dumb jokes (that turn into inside jokes), getting messy – it’s a good reminder that not everything has to be productive to matter.

  1. Graduating Seniors are More Ready for What’s Next Than They Realize

Camp is an ecosystem to practice a lot of the things post high school requires: living with strangers, being responsible for yourself, dealing with uncertainty, and figuring stuff out as you go. It helps build independence and resilience without even realizing it. When that next thing comes along, former campers typically don’t feel completely lost – they have already learned how to adjust to a new environment and take care of themselves away from home.

Final Thoughts

High school provides the foundation – study habits, deadlines, structure – but camp gives the tools to handle the unpredictable parts of life. It’s where emerging leaders learn how to work with all kinds of people, step up when it matters, and stay calm when things don’t go as planned.

Campers don’t come back from camp with a certificate or a grade, but they will return more capable, more self-aware, and more ready for what’s next. That kind of learning doesn’t show up on a transcript – but it shows up everywhere else.

Adapted from summer 365 blog posted in December 2025.

SUMMER 2026

Now is a GREAT time to enroll your camper/s for 2026 and reserve your spot/s: https://cwtp.campbrainregistration.com

We are VERY EXCITED about the upcoming summer where we will “Imagine This in ‘2-6!”

 

Some Things Just Earn a Heart

Both of our dogs were rescued. The younger of the two, Gumbo, came to us when he was about seven months old. When my husband went to the shelter to find a buddy for Gus, he couldn’t help but notice the little dog with a big personality. His name was quickly changed from Tyler to Gumbo to better match the incredible amount of energy and compassion bundled into this 45-pound canine. He is one of the snuggliest, most loving (and yes, occasionally mischievous) four-legged friends I know.

Because we didn’t know Gumbo’s exact birthday, we worked backward from his “gotcha day,” which put his arrival into the world sometime in mid-February. It took me about two seconds to land on Valentine’s Day as the date I’d use on all his official paperwork from that point forward. February 14 felt right—not because it was precise, but because it fit. Valentine’s Day isn’t about perfection or grand gestures; it’s about naming the things that already have our hearts.

Even though February is the shortest month, it’s the time of year we pause to recognize the people, places, and experiences we love most. This idea stretches beyond cards and candy—and even beyond one very lovable dog. One of the things that shows up with a heart attached, every single time, is camp. Camps across the country recognize how they are loved by campers, staff, families, and alumni with “I Heart Camp” Day, a moment to reflect on what makes camp special. Not with chocolate or flowers, but with photos. LOTS of them. You will be sent information about this very soon so you are ready for February 1st!

I heart camp.

There are many things I love about Camp Woodland. The CIT singers who come around every night to send us into sweet dreams is one of my favorites. I also love taco bar, being at the waterfront, fires in the lodge on a chilly morning, hearing the loons call to one another, chocolate peanut butter ice cream at Cathy’s, and so much more. Just writing this list makes me super excited for the upcoming summer!

I also keep coming back to three pretty simple words when I think about this place.

Kids heart camp.

I could write (and have written) blogs about youth development. Social-emotional stuff. Why screen-free summers rock. Camp being a much needed haven. A third place for many. The importance of autonomy, competence, and belonging. All part of why we do what we do.

But underneath every framework and philosophy is this basic fact that you probably already know:

Kids love camp.

Not “kids benefit from camp” or “camp is good for kids.” Like talk-about-it-all-year LOVE it.

Where else does this happen?

Think about all the places kids spend time. School. Sports practice. Tutoring. The dentist. Nana’s house. Birthday parties. The back seat of your car going to all of the above. Some of those are great. Some of those are fine. Some are tolerated. Some are endured because someone says so. How many of them does a kid actually love?

Like, genuinely love. Ask-about-it-months-later love. Count-down-the-days love.

Kids love home. Obviously. But where else? And yes, I definitely have a bias here. 100%. The evidence is everywhere. The Coed Show song list that is sung in the car/bus on the long drive home. Stories that surface at dinner in October. Countdowns that start in January (camp is THIS year!). The way campers put their phones down when they visit each other around the globe.

Confession: I spend a lot of time thinking about camp and how to explain camp to people who have never been to camp.

We heart camp.

And the CWTP team also spends tons and tons of hours thinking about every little detail of camp. Don’t believe me? Ask Calla about the programming activities and special events for “Imagine This in ‘2-6”, or Jackie about hiring the absolute best staff, or Lee’s leveled-up parent communication this summer, or JoAnne getting the many pieces in place for 6 weeks of fun in the Northwoods of Wisconsin.

Those hours matter. The thought, time, and care matter. But sometimes in trying to explain camp, it sounds more complicated than it is. It’s actually super simple. Camp has the just-right mix of stuff (this is a technical camp term) that makes kids (and staff) want to come back year after year.

Friendships, activities, attention, time, care, sports, arts, laughter, nature, songs, mentors. And underneath all of that is the simplest thing of all.

Kids especially heart camp.

Staff heart camp.

We all heart camp.

Happy “I Heart Camp” Day (week, month, and YEAR)!

Inspiration: KE newsletter/blog

Habits Formed at Camp and Continued at Home

Many of you may be familiar with Atomic Habits by James Clear. Its core idea is simple and powerful: lasting change comes from small, consistent actions that shape who we become—not just what we accomplish.

I subscribe to Clear’s weekly newsletter, and a recent January 1 excerpt felt especially fitting as we plunge into a new year:

“Improvements are only temporary until they become part of who you are.

  • The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader.
  • The goal is not to run a marathon, the goal is to become a runner.
  • The goal is not to learn an instrument, the goal is to become a musician.

Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. No single instance will transform your beliefs, but as the votes build up, so does the evidence of your new identity.

This year, focus on the identity you want to build.”

Clear’s message is a powerful reminder that habits aren’t just something we do—they’re something we become. And it’s a lens that feels especially meaningful when we think about camp.

 

Camper Resolutions (August ’25)
As the recent summer came to a close, we asked each camper: “What is a new habit you started at camp that you’d like to continue at home or at school?” In most cases, your daughter had more than 40 days to practice thoughtful, positive habits—whether that meant trying something new, showing up for others, staying active, or caring for herself with confidence.

Now is a perfect moment to check in with her. A simple conversation can help celebrate what’s sticking, offer encouragement where things feel harder, and gently reset any habits she hopes to carry forward. After all, success isn’t built in a single moment—it grows through the small, daily choices that shape who we are becoming.

“Success is the product of daily habits, not once-in-a-lifetime transformations.”

*Campers whose form we received are included here:

**SILVER BIRCH**

Sienna: archery, riding, and swimming; Molly: clean up the table at meals; Lucia: read everyday; Maggie B: fishing, archery and make my bed every day; Grace: riding and have dessert after lunch & dinner; Mara: try to eat at least a little food I don’t like; Amelia: keep shooting archery; Sloane & Fiona: clean my space and make my bed every day .

**STARSHINE**

Jacinta: drink lots of water; Eleanor: keep my space organized; Amelia: play tennis and drink lots of water; Georgia: try new things; Liza: be the hopper.

**SUNRISE**

Luci: swimming lessons; Sara: be active all day; Grace: kneeboard every day; Audrey: stay organized and clean; Ryann: be outside more; Claire: horseback riding, Della: make my bed.

**DRIFTWOOD**

Evie: be more organized; Elina: be on time; Lucia: my levels; Jaclyn: wash my hair every day; Maria: make my bed.

**SUNNYSIDE**

Lia, Alice & Elyse: make my bed; Clara: dance and sailrace; Emilia: wake up early and be organized with my things; Indira: eat healthy; Julie: sailing and fishing; Masyn: be myself and try new foods; Mojo: read more.

**TAMARACK**

Alaina: make bracelets; Paige: have fun and enjoy everything that happens; Ana Roberta: never give up; Evelyn: do arts & crafts; Marina: not look at my phone a lot;  Cas: not watch my phone as much; Ren: wake up with music; Olivia: read; Maggie: wakeup with a song; Avery & Maggie: make my bed (as soon as I get up)

**TREETOPS**

Montz: always have fun; Amelia: read, make bracelets and NO PHONE; Maddie H: sleep more and get good sleep; Hannah: brush my teeth a lot; Olive: make my bed every day; Maddie B: try new things and foods; Orla: be more social.

**HILLTOP**

Norah: eat a good breakfast and making my bed every morning; Julia: do my curly routine and let my hair down; Sydney: be more independent; Karen: meet my goals; Clara: stay positive; Taylor: make my bed every morning; Regi: go to bed earlier; Phoebe: have one song to wake up to and another to make my bed; Natalia: wear less to no makeup and read more often.

**AQUARIUS**

Vale: write down things I’m grateful for; Ana Lau: sleep at least 8 hrs; Ivana: be more aware of others; Amalia: get good sleep and be outside; Izzy: be more positive; Katharine: have a positive attitude; Elizabeth: make my bed every morning.

MAKING YOUR BED

It looks like “make my bed” is the clear *winner* for responses across the age groups for habits to be continued upon return from camp. There is something to be said about beginning each day with a task that you know you can complete. Something as simple as making your bed can lead to other “wins” throughout the day. It might just be something small that turns into something BIG that can change how things go in life AND in the world.

CAMP = ONE STOP SHOPPING FOR NEW YEAR’s RESOLUTIONS

Among the top resolutions that are made at the start of each New Year worldwide, some of the most common goals can be met while having an AMAZING summer experience at Camp Woodland:

  • Eat Healthy: Instead of serving processed food, we provide meals made from “scratch” using the freshest ingredients.  No powdered eggs here! Add drinking water and getting good sleep to boost the power of the fuel our bodies need!
  • Get Moving: Being a fixture on the couch is not an option if you live on County D Road. All of us are active at camp and get plenty of exercise in the great outdoors. We use our feet to take us just about everywhere we need to go!
  • Reduce Stress: Camp is a great way to “unplug” from the constant flow of social media distractions & messages and mindless scrolling (your camper/s went without a device for 4-6 weeks!). It is also a time to put the pressures of school and grades aside and just enjoy living in the moment. Above all, camp is FUN!!
  • Try Something New: With a variety of physical, recreational, and creative activities to choose from, campers have the opportunity to explore a wide range of interests. Who knows what spark will ignite and become a lifelong career or hobby?!
  • Spend More Time With Friends:  Imagine spending 24 hours a day each week with a group of your closest friends…how AWESOME is that?!  We believe in true “face time” versus “screen time”!

A BONUS RESOLUTION

Get Along With Siblings: Towering Pines and Woodland is the summer home for many brothers and sisters. The older campers typically take responsibility and look out for the younger ones and the “fighting” you might see at home vanishes for a few weeks.  Siblings actually look forward to seeing one another on occasion when sharing a common camp experience!

New Year’s Resolution: ENROLL for SUMMER 2026

Now is a GREAT time to enroll your camper/s for 2026 and reserve your spot/s: https://cwtp.campbrainregistration.com

We are VERY EXCITED about the upcoming summer where we will “Imagine This in ‘2-6!”